To become a success not only in mlm/network marketing but also in life, you must be willing to grow and expand yourself. Remember that saying?
“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting a different result”
If your not willing to mature and grow as a person how do you expect to grow and be successful in business?
To become more you have to be more. Know this, you are right where you’re supposed to be. All your thoughts and actions have put you right here. Now here is the question you should be asking yourself.
“Do I like where I am?”
If the answer is “NO” then do something about it.
You always hear people complaining that their not happy, or things are not working out the way they would like them too.
But what floors me the most is when you ask these people. “Have you thought about doing anything about it?” and people answer “No”. I always say “Then what are you complaining about?”
If you’re not willing to do anything about your situation, then personally you have nothing to complain about.
It takes great courage to change any situation you’re in. It takes a lot to get outside your comfort zone, it can be very scary out there, but it can be very powerful as well.
Know this you’re going to upset some people by making positive changes. But
Here are ten steps to attract great people, ideas and opportunities your way.
1) Tell The Truth. This means more than not lying. There is a level of telling the truth that will truly set you free and attract others to you. And, there is a way to tell the truth from a place of love vs. power or fear.
2) Be Yourself Be authentic. Accept where you are. We are where we are because of the choices we have made. Accepting this empowers us to choose again. By being authentic, you may fail to attract some people but you will still influence them.
3) Stay In The Present. If you stay in the present, you can move with the flow. Pay attention to what is happening to and around you RIGHT NOW. Attraction happens in the moment, not in the problems of the past or the anticipation of the future. You have to start here where attraction can find you.
4) Eliminate The Loss Of energy. You can have it all -if you are open to the possibilities. But first you must plug the holes by extending boundaries, raising standards, resolving past issues, healing. Attraction won’t find you until you’re ready. GET READY.
5) Win/Win The Higher Alternative. Most of us were raised to believe that if we win, the world loses or if the world wins, we lose. This is NOT true. Look for the way that is a win for all parties concerned. If you can’t find one – walk away from the deal.
6) Giving Is Receiving. The joy is in the giving, it’s true! We all have something to give, something to add. Add it. If you don’t have enough to add, learn a new skill. When you add “you” and your gifts to other people’s lives. YOU become more attractive!
7) Be Selfish. Take extremely good care of yourself. Get your needs met first. If you need something, usually it will run away or escape you. Build reserves in areas of money, love, space, opportunities, ideas, friends, you’ll become a strong magnet for what you want–because you won’t need it.
Increase Your Awareness. Attraction is a subtle phenomenon. You won’t feel it or get it until you’ve increased your awareness of yourself, those around you, how you think, and your life assumptions…
9) Take Responsibility. We attract what we are ready for. Get ready for the best – by doing the work! The responsibility for making one’s self and one’s organization attractive is NOT effortless, but the result is truly incredible!
10) Shift From Doing to Being. Notice who you are Being as you go about doing what it is you do. Where are you “coming from” love or fear? How will you know – by the result?
So, the question is… What would you do to enjoy a life of ease, simplicity, peace, abundance, wealth, vitality, and success? Would you be willing to do WHATEVER it takes to create the life you want, EVEN if it meant doing things differently than you’re doing now?