Simply by changing your habitual vocabulary (words) you use to describe the emotions in your life, you can immediately change how you think, feel and how you live. It’s important to realize that words shape your beliefs and impact your actions. People will cling to their beliefs for dear life – even when they are wrong! Take control of your life right now! When you make a statement with the words: not, don’t, won’t, no, can’t, you actually give attention and focus to what you don’t want. What if I said to you, “Don’t think of the color blue.”You’re now thinking of the color blue, 100% for sure. Your conscious and unconscious mind edited out the “don’t”.
So when you hear or say to yourself… Don’t worry. Don’t smoke. Don’t forget. This won’t hurt… you just give more attention to what you don’t want. So what do you say to yourself? Maybe you say to yourself “Why can’t I be successful?” When you ask yourself a question using words like that the answer back is usually something like: I can’t because I’m not smart enough” I can’t because I’m not educated enough” I can’t because I was not prepared” I can’t because I have no money” Wow!! How disemboweling as those answers? Your brain is like a computer. “Garbage In Garbage Out” If you ask yourself a bad question, you’ll get a bad answer. Choose better words to ask a better question and you’ll get a better answer. Simple but, oh, SO powerful! Just change the words Instead of saying… Why can’t I be successful” Change it to…What changes do I need to make in order to become Successful?” What answers do you think you’ll get now? Ask a better question and you’ll get a better answer”. Or put a statement into the past. For example “I can’t make any money” Change that to “In the past, it was hard to make money”. Other examples I hate” becomes “I prefer”. “Failure” becomes “Getting educated”. “Overwhelmed” becomes “Challenged”. “Depressed” becomes “Not on top of it”. “Rejected” becomes “Misunderstood”. We all use words and phrases everyday that dis-empower us and attract things we don’t want. Just replace them with words and phrases that em-power you. Words create emotions. And those emotions create our experiences, which shape’s your destiny. So why not create emotions and experiences that attract the things. You want in your life?