Why do so many dreams fall by the wayside? Why is it that many people give up on their dreams and choose a ‘just OK’ life instead of a life of enthusiasm, success and self expression? Are there things that you would love to do but somehow never get round to doing them? It is not strange, perhaps you failed to do the right thing. Many, many people get stuck in life. Stuck in unfulfilling careers, stuck with the things that they never wanted, while the things they do want seem to remain forever out of reach. Many get stuck, many never get what they want because they succumbed to F-E-A-R : false evidence appearing real. It may be the fear of upsetting someone else, it may be the fear that you might make a fool of yourself, it may be the fear of the unknown or perhaps, the fear of failure itself. Fear has prevented more people from succeeding in life than any other cause. Human beings tend to give up their pursuit of success to the frightening feelings of fear.
What is fear? The true definition of fear is- false evidence appearing real. Fear is one of the greatest obstacles on the road to success. Fears are multiplied through negative thoughts built up over years. Fear of the unknown or the unproven future keeps many people confined to their pigeonholes. Fear is something that seems very real in our minds. But upon further investigation we discover that the so called facts are untrue. How many times have you turned away from an opportunity because you were too afraid to go for it? Has fear kept you in a comfort zone too long? Has fear blocked your door of opportunity? Just keep in mind that when fears begin to create doubt, check the substance of that thought or idea. You may find it’s false evidence appearing real. When we analyze all the circumstances that create fear, they generally wind up being only figments of our imagination.
You can combat fears by concentrating on your goals, your aspirations and your dreams of success. Don’t allow fears to eat away your confidence. Stop and analyze what you fear. Is it because of a bad experience or something you haven’t tried before? Examine the situation confronting you. Learn everything you can about the situation. Then eliminate your fear by re-establishing your belief through clear, positive thinking and action. This will help you build your confidence every time. If you change the way you think, fears will disappear and you will instinctively change the way you act. Success – great success, is visualizing, planning and doing things that failure never dreams about doing? Are you going to take on the challenge of greatness that is facing everyone in this world but which only a few conquer? I dare you to make the most of yourself. Take me up on my offer and see your life dramatically change.
Tags:Fear,Motivation
That’s great one from you boy. U ‘ve succeeded in encouraging somebody today. Setting someone free from fear of unknown etc. Keep it up.